Illustration by Maya Baron

Pleasant Valley Press

The newsletter of the Unitarian Fellowship of Lawrence, KS
A Welcoming Congregation

January 15th, 2008

v 49, no 18

New Member
Congratulations and a warm welcome to our newest member, Karen Henry, who signed the membership book last Sunday, January 13. We are delighted to have Karen on board!

Every Saturday
Peace Vigil Saturday at Noon on Saturday at the courthouse on Massachusetts. Please join us!

 

Ministerial Office Hours
Consulting Minister Jill Jarvis has resumed her regular office hours, and will be available for counseling and consultation every Tuesday at the Fellowship from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. Jill may also be reached anytime via email at jjarvis1@kc.rr.com.

 

UFL Yahoo! Group
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Deadline for Submissions
Please send newsletter submissions no later than Monday, 12:00 p.m. noon to ufl_newsletter@yahoo.com.
Thank you for your attention to this detail!

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Quotes by
Martin Luther King, Jr.

Love is the only force capable of transforming an enemy into friend.

Every man must decide whether he will walk in the light of creative altruism or in the darkness of destructive selfishness.

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin, but by the content of their character.

I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.

I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear.

Our scientific power has outrun our spiritual power. We have guided missiles and misguided men.

The hottest place in Hell is reserved for those who remain neutral in times of great moral conflict.

Nonviolence is a powerful and just weapon. which cuts without wounding and ennobles the man who wields it. It is a sword that heals.

Shallow understanding from people of good will is more frustrating than absolute misunderstanding from people of ill will.

Wars are poor chisels for carving out peaceful tomorrows.

Property is intended to serve life, and no matter how much we surround it with rights and respect, it has no personal being. It is part of the earth man walks on. It is not man.

Philanthropy is commendable, but it must not cause the philanthropist to overlook the circumstances of economic injustice which make philanthropy necessary.

Goal Quotes

Frank Lloyd Wright: I know the price of success: dedication, hard work, and an unremitting devotion to the things you want to see happen.

Helen Keller: I long to accomplish a great and noble tasks, but it is my chief duty to accomplish humble tasks as though they were great and noble. The world is moved along, not only by the mighty shoves of its heroes, but also by the aggregate of the tiny pushes of each honest worker.

Herb Cohen: If you don't know where you are going, you can never get lost.

John Dewey: Arriving at one point is the starting point to another.

John F. Kennedy: Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the future.

Michelangelo: The greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it.

 

 

 

 

 


 

On Sundays
Please Join Us!

Sunday, January 20th
9:15AM - Spiritual Service: Honoring Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr in a multigenerational environment. Sherry Warren and Lara Wilson will lead an engaging service about civil rights, UU involvement historically, and what it means to us today.

10:45 a.m. Program: MUSIC FOR ALL. We will present a varied musical program, including music performed on several instruments by both young and old. This will be a chance to showcase some of the many talents we have within our Fellowship community.

Sunday, January 27th
9:15AM - Spiritual Service: TBA

10:45 a.m. Program: 10:45AM January 27: In another of the "My Last Lecture" series, Elizabeth Schultz will present "On the Margin of the Ensuing Scene and In Full Sight of It". Professor Schultz retired in 2001 from the University of Kansas, where she was the Chancellor's Club Teaching Professor in the English Department. The author of "Unpainted to the Last: Moby Dick and Twentieth-Century American Art" (1995), "Shoreline: Seasons at the Lake" (2001), and "Conversations: Art into Poetry at the Spencer Museum of Art" (2006), she has published extensively in the fields of nineteenth-century American fiction, American women's writing, African American fiction and autobiography, and Japanese culture. A founder of the Melville Society Cultural Project in New Bedford, MA, she has curated several exhibitions related to Melville and the arts, and has co-edited a collection of essays on Melville and women. In retirement, she continues to write and publish poetry and essays on nature for the Kansas Land Trust's newsletter. She is on the Board of Directors of the Lawrence Arts Center and the Clerk of the Oread Friends Meeting.

Committee Chairs' Roundtable
Next Sunday, January 20th, a Committee Chairs' Roundtable will be held in the Fellowship Hall. This will begin at 12:15 with lunch being served at 12:00 p.m. Please bring your ideas and thoughts on how to cut your spending to help defray the cost of the additional work on the building. Some of the money from the General Operations fund is going to utilities and work on the RE wing that is not covered in a special grant to be used for the updates. Also, begin thinking about how you can hold your budget for next year. Yes, folks, it is that time again. If you find you cannot attend please send a member of your committee in your place. If you have any questions please call or e-mail Judy Wilson.

Annual Fellowship Auction
Saturday, March 29th

The UFL Fundraising Committee is pleased to announce that our annual auction has been scheduled to occur on Saturday afternoon/evening, March 29th. The Fellowship will once again have the benefit of our superb auctioneer, Jeremy Taylor, to assure that the bidding doesn't cease until every item (goods, artifacts, services) has been snapped up and that our coffers are overflowing with the largess contributed by members and friends. Child care will be provided.

Here is the schedule/format:

  • Silent auction of items up for bid begins at 4:00 p.m. in the Social Hall downstairs. To encourage general frivolity and substantial bids, finger foods and wine and other beverages will be provided.
  • Deadline for entering bids for items in the silent auction is 5:30 p.m.
  • Live auction begins at 6:00 and continues until 7:30 or final item is auctioned.
  • Settlement of accounts takes place thereafter.

All members are urged to place the date, Saturday, March 29, and time, 4:00-7:30 p.m., on their calendars and to invite friends to come along.

Items up for auction, which have in the past ranged from lawnmowers, furniture, objects d'art, vintage automobiles, services--such as a gourmet dinner for eight, a week's occupancy of a holiday home, yard work, computer debugging--and all the other imaginative offerings of which our membership is capable, are to made known via email or telephone call to one of the members of the Fundraising Committee by Monday, March 24th (so that a catalog can be prepared) and the item or, in the case of a service up for auction, a brief description, must be submitted to the Committee or brought to the Fellowship no later than Saturday morning, March 29th

We wish to thank in advance all of those who contribute items for the auction and for their willingness to help with what is an important component of the Unitarian Fellowship of Lawrence operating budget.

We look forward to a most successful auction! ~Della Hadley, Carol Eades Delnevo, and Ted Wilson, Chair

Elementary OWL Training Success!
On January 11th and 12th our Fellowship was the site of an Our Whole Lives training retreat for future facilitators of elementary age children. Our Whole Lives, a comprehensive, age appropriate sexuality education program, was developed jointly by the UUA and United Church of Christ. We hosted 33 future OWL leaders from UU and UCC/Congregational churches and fellowships from Kansas, Nebraska, Iowa, Arkansas and California. Participants from our Fellowship include Peter Graham, Aileen Dingus, Jeff Lewis, Susan Crain Lewis, Carol Eades Delnevo, and Marta Caminero Santangelo. Many thanks to all those who made the weekend possible, including Graham Kreicker and Pat Eddishaw, Valerie and John Roper, Judith Galas of Plymouth Congregational Church, Tom Cravens, Sheila Warren, Adrian Delnevo and Carol Eades Delnevo. ~Sherry Warren

OWL - Our Whole Lives
Please join us on Sunday, January 27 at 12:00 for an overview of the Our Whole Lives sexuality education program. We will be offering the eight session program for kindergarten and first grade children at 10:45 on Sunday mornings between March and May with an initial session for both parents and children on Feb. 24. Program materials will be available for your review. Childcare and lunch will be provided. Please RSVP to Carol at askeades@aol.com.
~Carol Eades Delnevo and Peter Graham

JUST FOOD
Sunday, January 20th

It is that time again! Let's fill the Checkers food cart from our contributions.

The community partners continue planning with a focus on: Food Gathering, Community Education, Marketing, Fund-Raising and Organizational Needs.

The major focus of the JUST FOOD partners continues to be supplying food pantries with nonperishable food items, and more needs to be done. Plans continue to develop addressing the longer range needs for the community.

Checkers and Hy-Vee have generously assisted in promoting JUST FOOD collections enabling food purchases from the Kansas City warehouse. The December Checkers program produced less than anticipated. Hy-Vee's program began this past week. Volunteers are needed to hand out information cards to shoppers. For information on volunteering contact ECKAN.

Plans are underway for a community forum on hunger the end of March or April. We'll keep you posted on developments.

For now let's turn out for another Fellowship Gathering for JUST FOOD this coming Sunday. ~Forrest Swall, the Social Action Committee

Topeka Kicks Off Capital Campaign!
This past Sunday, the UU Fellowship of Topeka's membership voted unanimously to proceed with a $750,000 capital campaign to finance an addition to their building. Past President, Debra Kirmer, said it looked like the largest group that had ever attended a meeting at their Fellowship was present for the vote. Enthusiasm generated by the unanimous vote was overwhelming and was further enhanced by the announcement of a $150,000 contribution from the Roudebush family.

Strategic Planning Retreat
Saturday, January 26, 2008--9:30 - 3:00 PM
All are invited to participate! In November, a number of Fellowship members participated in a meeting of the Strategic Planning Task Force. The meeting was open to all, particularly those with interests in Membership, Social Action, Program, Spiritual Service, RE, Hospitality, and Communications issues. It was decided then to have a retreat in January to follow up on the ideas generated. The purpose of the Task Force is 1) to prepare for the time when the new addition is completed and when we might expect more visitors, more potential members, more children, and 2) to be poised to do more for and with our own members (more small-group activities, more programming for young adults, more adult RE opportunities, etc.), 3) to do more in the local community (social action, social justice, etc.) and 4) to plan how we may better communicate who we are.

Committees have been invited to present goals and ideas. We hope then to generate many thoughts as to how we can accomplish the overall goals by working together in an interconnected way.

Please put this event on your calendar! ~Barbara Schowen, convener

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